Lucia talks about her experience of supporting her 12 year old son
My son is our first child. As a baby he was generally happy and content. He didn’t crawl, and walked when he was 15 months old. We did not think this was unusual or concerning. He went to nursery from 9months of age, where he enjoyed the company of other children, but he did not like loud noises, messy play or being dirty. He cried everyday when I left him at nursery (where he remained until the age of 4!), even though we were told he didn’t take long to settle and was very happy during the day. Potty training took a while, but we were always told this was not unusual “being a boy”. He started talking very early and we thought this was great (“isn’t he clever…”); he did stammer for a bit; we thought it was more pressure of speech than a stammer and didn’t seek help. Our daughter was born when he was two, and soon we started to notice differences in their development. A bit of this was put down to “girls are so different”, so we did not think much about this. He remembers his time in nursery as very happy.